# Family Play Therapy

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## Posts

- [Drop-In Play Therapy Consultation/Supervision Group, 26-27 Year](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2026/workshops/drop-in-play-therapy-consultation-supervision-group-26-27-year/): Don’t wait — slots are limited! Starting in on August 28, I will be offering group supervision/consultation on 2nd and 4th Fridays through May 28 at 9:00 AM Pacific Time, online via Zoom. If you’ve ever wondered what play therapy-focused supervision was like, here’s your chance to join us with a flexible format and commitment.
- [[November 2026] Therapist Workshop: Inviting Parents into Play Therapy](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2026/workshops/november-2026-therapist-workshop-inviting-parents-into-play-therapy/): Get ready to level up your Play Therapy by learning with another training about integrating parents into play therapy. This is an in-person workshop in Oakland, CA on November 7, 2026. Click to read for more details.
- [September 11: So You Want To Be A Registered Play Therapist (RPT) Workshop Returns!](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2026/workshops/september-11-so-you-want-to-be-a-registered-play-therapist-rpt-workshop-returns/): Do you want to be a registered play therapist but don't know where to start? Learn from an experienced clinician who has been there and help you unlock your play therapy superpower and more on September 11, 2026. Click to learn more.
- [Introduction to Play Therapy - Fall 2026](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2026/all-posts/introduction-to-play-therapy-fall-2026/): Description Are you working with children or interested in working with children and have little or no play therapy training?  This two-day workshop provides the information you need to begin working successfully with children in Play Therapy.
- [[July 2026] Building Blocks Therapist Workshop](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2026/all-posts/july-2026-building-blocks-therapist-workshop/): Get ready to level up your Play Therapy by learning about Building Blocks: Supporting Social Development Through Group Play Therapy! This is an in-person workshop in Oakland, CA on July 25th. Click to read for more details.
- [Zoom Workshop on May 8: So You Want To Be A Registered Play Therapist](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2026/workshops/zoom-workshop-on-may-8-so-you-want-to-be-a-registered-play-therapist/): Do you want to be a registered play therapist but don't know where to start? Learn from an experienced clinician who has been there and help you unlock your play therapy superpower and more on May 8, 2026. Click to learn more.
- [Talking about the Tough Stuff with Children](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2026/articles/talking-about-the-tough-stuff-with-children/): At times like these, when hard things are happening in our community, our country, and in the larger world, we know it is our responsibility to communicate with our children. But it’s hard. Hard to find the right time. Hard to find the right words. Hard to know how much to share. Here are some thoughts I hope are helpful.
- [[March 2026] Therapist Workshop: Integrating Parents Into Play Therapy](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2026/workshops/march-2026-therapist-workshop-integrating-parents-into-play-therapy/): Get ready to level up your Play Therapy by learning with another training about integrating parents into play therapy. This is an in-person workshop in Oakland, CA on March 14th. Click to read for more details.
- [Zoom Workshop: So You Want To Be A Registered Play Therapist](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2025/workshops/zoom-workshop-so-you-want-to-be-a-registered-play-therapist/): Do you want to be a registered play therapist but don't know where to start? Learn from an experienced clinician who has been there and help you unlock your play therapy superpower and more on January 16th, 2026. Click to learn more.
- [New Play Therapy Consultation/Supervision Groups](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2025/workshops/new-play-therapy-consultation-supervision-groups/): Don’t wait — slots are limited! Starting in late January, I will be offering group supervision/consultation on 2nd and 4th Fridays from Jan 23 to May 8 at 9:00 am Pacific Time, online. If you’ve ever wondered what play therapy-focused supervision was like, here’s your chance to join us with a flexible format and commitment.
- [Teaching Bodily Autonomy to Children: Holiday Edition](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2025/blog/holiday-edition-how-and-why-we-teach-bodily-autonomy-to-your-child/): Picture this: You are surrounded by family. Grandma, grandpa, partner's relatives, etc. They excitedly come up to greet you and your family. Physical affection holds a high value in your family. You always greet and say good-bye to one another with hugs, and sometimes kisses to the cheek. So it makes sense that Grandma wants to give your little one a kiss, or maybe it's your partner's uncle or aunt that you or your child don't know very well. Or maybe you are getting a photo of your child with Santa Claus.* But your child seems to shy away from these interactions. You want to insist, “Just go hug Grandma, what’s the big deal?” For your child’s safety and the safety of others, please don’t. Here’s why - and what to do instead.
- [Skip the AI Toys this Holiday Season](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2025/articles/skip-the-ai-toys/): As the winter holidays approach, many of you are busy making your holiday gift lists.  And though AI can be helpful in a variety of applications–budgeting, drafting emails, summarizing, and creating notes for projects or meetings–, I have one important piece of advice:  Skip the AI toys for children.
- [[Nov 6, 2025] Parent Workshop](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2025/workshops/nov-6-2025-parent-workshop/): In this 90-minute workshop, we will be looking at some difficult behaviors children present in preschool. Looking through the lens that all behavior is communication, we can explore the messages and needs behind the behavior. This can point us in the right direction for helping the child. Sometimes, that means adjusting the environment for the child. Sometimes, that means helping the child acquire the skills needed for healthier, more pro-social behavior.
- [[Nov. 2025] Educator & Staff Workshop](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2025/workshops/nov-2025-educator-staff-workshop/): In this 90-minute workshop, we will be looking at some difficult behaviors children present in preschool. Looking through the lens that all behavior is communication, we can explore the messages and needs behind the behavior. This can point us in the right direction for helping the child. Sometimes, that means adjusting the environment for the child. Sometimes, that means helping the child acquire the skills needed for healthier, more pro-social behavior.
- [Rhythm, Rhyme and Regulation](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2025/articles/rhythm-rhyme-and-regulation/): In this blog post, I want to share games and activities I use to help children develop co- regulation and self-regulation skills. These are activities that can be used by parents, teachers, or therapists. Used regularly they can help children manage their big feelings and minor upsets so they don’t spiral out of control.
- [[Nov. 2025] Therapist Workshop: Integrating Parents Into Play Therapy](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2025/workshops/nov-2025-therapist-workshop-integrating-parents-into-play-therapy/): Get ready to level up your Play Therapy by learning with another training about integrating parents into play therapy. This is an in-person workshop in Oakland, CA on November 1st. Click to read for more details.
- [Finding the Right Fit](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2025/articles/finding-the-right-fit/): Thoughts on Supervision Are you interested in honing your skills working with children and families? Interested in becoming a Registered Play Therapist? If the answer to either of these questions is yes, you’ll want to seek out a play therapy supervisor for consultation. Places to look for a play therapy supervisor may include the Association for Play Therapy directory (APT), Psychology Today, or Therapy Den—or simply asking colleagues. Once you have some names, you’ll need to consider the best fit. Here are three questions to guide your search: One: Where are you in your journey? Are you a licensed mental health […]
- [Transition to Toddlerhood in the Age of COVID](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2025/articles/transition-to-toddlerhood-in-the-age-of-covid/): Why do ‘pandemic babies’ still struggle with limits? I have been pondering a lot about how the COVID shutdown impacted children the way it did. Why is it so difficult for shutdown-born children to manage their emotions? Why do they have such a hard time with the word NO? Why are they tantruming over so many seemingly trivial things? I believe at least part of the answer lies in the transition from infancy to toddlerhood. For many families, the baby’s first year under the COVID shutdown went pretty well. The slower pace of life allowed for more time to relax and […]
- [Games Play Therapists Play: Stress Ball Lab](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2025/blog/games-play-therapists-play-stress-ball-lab/): This is one cool activity! ChildLedTherapistDirected What is a stress ball? A stress ball is a small fidget toy that can be used to manage stress through tactile stimulation. A DIY stress ball is easy to make by filling a balloon with dry materials and tying it off. The stress ball can be kept in a pocket, on a desk, in the car — wherever a person needs or wants to use a tactile fidget. And the lab part? The stress ball lab creates an opportunity to try out a number of different dry materials to create the best stress ball. […]
- [[August 2025] Building Blocks Therapist Workshop](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2025/workshops/august-2025-building-blocks-therapist-workshop/): Get ready to level up your Play Therapy by learning about Building Blocks: Supporting Social Development Through Group Play Therapy! This is an in-person workshop in Oakland, CA on August 16th. Click to read for more details.
- [Games Play Therapists Play: Catch](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2025/blog/games-play-therapists-play-catch/): Does catch really have therapeutic value for children and families?  
Absolutely! This might be the most played game in my practice. I open most family sessions—and some individual sessions—with a simple game of catch. Read on to learn more about how I do it.
- [Games Play Therapists Play: Board Games](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2025/blog/games-play-therapists-play-board-games/): Do board games really have therapeutic value for elementary-aged children? 
Absolutely! Board games play can support emotional growth, skill building, and relationship development in meaningful ways. Here are some of the ways board games get used in non-directive or directive play therapy.
- [[CLOSED] [May 2025] Building Blocks Therapist Workshop](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2025/workshops/may-building-blocks/): Get ready to level up your Play Therapy by learning about Building Blocks: Supporting Social Development Through Group Play Therapy! This is an in-person workshop in Oakland, CA on May 17th. Click to read for more details.
- [Building Blocks Skills Group Starting April 10!](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2025/groups/building-blocks-starting-april-10-2025/): Building Blocks Social Skills Group  is coming to Old Firehouse School, Lafayette Campus, on Thursday mornings starting on April 10, 2025!
- [Building Blocks at White Pony on April 8!](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2025/groups/building-blocks-at-white-pony-on-april-8/): Building Blocks is coming to White Pony Preschool on Tuesday mornings starting on April 8, 2025! Click to learn more.
- [Post-COVID-19: Kids Still Need Help](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2025/blog/post-covid-kids-still-need-help/): Can the Pandemic Still Be Affecting My Child? I recently got a question from a concerned parent:“But he was so young. Can the shutdown still be affecting him?”My answer? A loud, clear, YES. The impact of the pandemic, post-COVID, continues to affect children in ways we may not always realize. Here’s what I’m seeing: Emotional Disregulation One of the most common reasons parents seek my help is emotional disregulation. I often hear things like: These sudden emotional shifts are more than just tantrums—they’re a sign that a child is struggling to cope with their emotions. Social Anxiety The pandemic has also […]
- [What’s your pandemic story?](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2023/all-posts/whats-your-pandemic-story/): Stories have a vital role to play in trauma prevention and recovery. Learn why sharing our pandemic stories is crucial and how they can help us in the future.
- [How to Avoid Power Struggles with Your Children](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2022/all-posts/how-to-avoid-power-struggles-with-your-children/): One of my all time favorite parenting books has the long title How to Get your Kids to Eat, But Not Too Much.  Nutritionist Ellyn Satter discussed why it is important to stay out of power struggles with your child around eating, then describes how to do it: by being clear about the lines of responsibility.  Satter states parents are responsible for what food is available and when and where it is served. The child is responsible for whether and how much to eat.  Satter’s book is full of refinements of this basic principle and great information about raising healthy eaters.  It is […]
- [Why Children's Play Appears Violent](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2022/all-posts/why-childrens-play-appears-violent/): With so many violent tragedies playing out in our schools and communities, parents are understandably concerned when their children have pretend play with violent themes. I often have parents come to me with concerns over pretend gun play in particular. Developmentally, this play has a very important function. Your child is learning to manage, contain and control their aggressive impulses. Everyone has these impulses. We all get angry, jealous or afraid. We all have the desire, conscious or unconscious, to lash out and hurt someone. Play gives children the opportunity to explore and work through these feelings without actually hurting anyone. […]
- [What to Do When Your Child is Rude: My Most-Offered Advice](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2022/blog/what-to-do-if-your-child-is-rude-my-most-offered-advice/): I often hear parents say things like “My child is so rude. You would not believe the things he says to me.”  Or,  ‘I would have never spoken to my parents this way.” “No matter what I try, the problem just keeps getting worse. “ Hearing your child say these things can feel upsetting and embarrassing.  It leads parents to ask ‘What am I doing wrong?  Why is my child so disrespectful?”  And it leads to my most often offered piece of advice: “Ignore the language, speak to the feelings.” This is true if your toddler calling you Poopie Head, your […]
- [The Alphabet Can Wait: Essential Learning for Preschoolers](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2022/all-posts/the-alphabet-can-wait-essential-learning-for-preschoolers/): Fifty years ago, when I was a little girl, children were taught the alphabet in Kindergarten. It was there that we learned the name and shape of each letter, to associate sounds with letters, to recognize and write our names. Assuming a positive experience with books, and barring any learning disability, most of us moved smoothly into reading in first grade at about age six. Over time, the age when most children are introduced to these pre-reading and early writing activities has decreased. Most two year olds can sing the alphabet. Many children can name letters at age three. A good […]
- [For Safety’s Sake: How to Teach Bodily Autonomy to Your Child](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2022/blog/for-safetys-sake-how-to-teach-bodily-autonomy-to-your-child/): Physical affection holds a high value and your family. You always greet and say good-bye toone another with hugs, and sometimes kisses to the cheek. But tonight, when it’s time to saygoodbye, your child is balking and refusing to hug grandpa. This upsets you. Your child isdisobeying you and showing disrespect for a beloved family member. You want to insist “Justgo hug your Grandpa, what’s the big deal?” For you child’s safety, and the safety of others,please don’t. Here’s why – and what to do instead. One of the most important things we can do for our children is to teach […]
- [In Praise of Praise (And When Not To)](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2022/blog/in-praise-of-praise-and-when-not-to/): When I was a young child in the 1960s, praise was a rare thing for a parent to offer.  One was expected to be good for goodness’ sake – and to avoid the spanking that comes from being ‘bad’. Then, around 1970, parents began hearing messaging that praise was good for children. There was a distinction made between bad children and bad behavior. Children began to be told “Good job!” And “That’s terrific!” more often. Reward charts appeared in classrooms and in home kitchens.  Praise and positive reinforcement were seen as ways to boost children’s self esteem, confidence, and performance. This […]
- [Parenting Tip: Tell Them What They’re Doing Right](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2022/all-posts/parenting-tip-tell-them-what-theyre-doing-right/): Too often, I was the parent nagging my children about the 10% of the chore that didn’t get done, rather than noticing the 90% that did. That’s the way I was raised. That’s the way I thought it should be done. Children don’t need praise for doing things right, they need to be held accountable when they do things wrong. Turns out that’s backwards. It’s time to turn things around for children. Read more to learn why.
- [Tantrums: Why They Do It](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2021/blog/tantrums-why-they-do-it/): Children tantrum for three basic reasons: to communicate, to gain control and to release emotional energy.
- [Tantrums: How to Get Through It](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2021/blog/tantrums-how-to-get-through-it/): HOW TO GET THROUGH TANTRUMS Before, we learned that children tantrum for one of three reasons: But once we know the why, how do we deal with them? Tantrums are difficult to manage because they play into our own feelings. They make us feel out of control. Tantrums can trigger all of our insecurities as parents: Parents, Please do not shame yourself for this type of behavior. Your child’s tantrum is not your fault! But it is your responsibility to help guide them through. Here’s how. LET’S SAY IT AGAIN…FIRST, BREATH! Step one is to take a deep breath and check […]
- [The Alphabet Can Wait:  Essential Learning in the Preschool Years](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2016/blog/the-alphabet-can-wait-essential-learning-in-the-preschool-years/): Fifty years ago, when I attended, children were taught the alphabet in Kindergarten. It was there we learned the name and shape of each letter, to associate sounds with letters, to recognize and write our names. Assuming a positive experience with books and barring any learning disability, most of us moved smoothly into reading in first grade at about age six. Over time, the age when most children are introduced to these pre-reading and early writing activities has decreased. Most two year olds can sing the alphabet and name letters at age three. A good deal of time is spent in […]
- [Helping Children Manage Joint Custody](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2016/articles/helping-children-manage-joint-custody/): Do you remember the famous Winston Churchill quote “Democracy is the worst form of government, except for all the others that have been tried.” The same can be said for joint custody. Joint custody is the worst possible choice for children with divorced or separated parents, except when you consider the other choices. Stay in an unhappy, tension filled marriage? Not good for the kids. Sure, most children would prefer to live in one house with both parents in contented marriage with one another. All attempts to rectify marital problems in order to stay in the marriage should be made. But […]
- [Fall Parenting Series: September - November 2016](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2016/workshops/fall-parenting-series/): I am pleased to announce a series of low fee parenting workshops to be held in my Oakland office throughout the fall.  These workshops are designed to be friendly, low key ways to get some questions answered and to develop parenting strategies that work for your family.  Come to one or come to all. 1st, 2nd, and 4th Mondays of the month! September 26:  Effective Limit Setting with Children: Why, When, and How to Draw the Line October 3: From Tots to Teens: Parents Strategies that Grow with Your Child October 10: Talking about Race with Preschoolers** October 24: Worried about my […]
- [Building Blocks:  Social Skills Playgroup for Young Children](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2015/blog/building-blocks-social-skills-playgroup-for-young-children/): Group now forming to begin January 13, 2017 in San Ramon, CA.  Intake session to be held in December 2016. Concurrent group can be held in Oakland, CA on Wednesday mornings if there is enough interest. Building Blocks is designed to meet the needs of children ages 3-5 having difficulty with: Building Blocks can assist your child to: Eight-week session includes: Fee: $975.00 Time: Thursday mornings 9:15 am – 10:00 am Place: 2500 Old Crow Canyon Road in San Ramon, CA. Call (925) 831-1926 or email katrinca@familyplaytherapy.com for more information or to schedule an intake.
- [Books on Parenting Strategies](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2015/all-posts/books-on-parenting-strategies/): I am cautious about recommending parenting books because not all children are alike. Neither, of course, are all parents. We all come with are own histories, strengths, and limitations. There is no parenting book that can give all the answers for every situation. However, here are some books that I think are useful. They offer strategies for minimizing the frustration and accentuating the joy of parenting. And most of what the authors have to say is applicable to most families. The Secret of ParentingAnthony Wolf, PhD. This short, easy read explains some of the central dilemmas of parenthood. “Why does my […]
- [Moon Flour](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2015/recipes/moon-flour/): This recipe produces something very similar to commercially available Moon Sand, but is softer, less expensive and easier to clean up. Ingredients: 2 cups flour ¼ cup mineral oil Directions: Stir the mineral oil into the flour until it is evenly distributed and fully absorbed. The resulting product should hold together loosely when compacted like wet sand. Add additional mineral oil if needed to achieve desired result. Place in a shallow tray. Children can use hands, measuring spoons, plastic or paper cups and/or silicon molds to create shape and “sand” castles.
- [What they have to Teach Us: Children of Gay and Lesbian Parents in Therapy](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2014/workshops/what-they-have-to-teach-us-children-of-gay-and-lesbian-parents-in-therapy/): This workshop explores the myths and realities of growing up in gay/lesbian-headed household in today’s society. Come examine ways play therapists may promote a healthy climate for gay/lesbian families in the playroom and in the community.
- [At the Intersection of Trauma and Attachment](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2014/hcpworkshops/at-the-intersection-of-trauma-and-attachment/): Children with trauma histories and children with disrupted attachment relationships often present with the same list of problematic behaviors and very similar treatment challenges.  This workshop explores why this is true using information from neurobiology and attachment theory.
- [Play and the Brain: The Essential Role of Play in Child Development and Healing](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2014/hcpworkshops/play-and-the-brain-the-essential-role-of-play-in-child-development-and-healing/): This workshop examines the various types of play children engage in and the key developmental tasks each type of play supports.  The workshop covers practical information on brain development in order to help therapists decide which type of play will be most useful in addressing trauma that occurred at specific stages of development.
- [Healing Attachment Wounds in Play Therapy](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2014/hcpworkshops/healing-attachment-wounds-in-play-therapy/): This workshop explores the basics of attachment with a focus on why attachment is so crucial to development.  Learn about the impact of disrupted attachment on social/emotional development, and explore techniques for gaining the trust of attachment-challenged children. Most importantly, you will learn how to offer an emotionally corrective experience in the playroom.
- [Intro to Play Therapy](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2014/hcpworkshops/intro-to-play-therapy/): This workshop is intended for therapists who are new to working with children.  It covers the basic principles of non-directive play therapy and offers valuable techniques for building rapport, assessing level of function, expanding emotional vocabulary, managing impulses and more!
- [Therapy Referrals for Fellow Therapists](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2014/hcptherapy/therapy-referrals-for-therapists/): If you are a therapist who specializes in areas outside of children and child development, you may want to consider making referrals to my practice when the need arises. Although I see children of all ages, my focus is on work with young children (0-7) and their families. I have specific interest and experience in work with trauma, attachment issues and atypical development which does not seem to fit a specific diagnosis. Feel free to contact me by phone or email if you would like more information about my practice before making a referral.
- [Consultation for Therapists](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2014/hcpconsultation/consultation-for-other-therapists/): I offer consultation for therapists who work primarily with children as well as for those who work primarily with adults. I am often sought out by fellow play therapists because of my extensive background in child development and my hand’s on experience with children. I offer the opportunity to understand the principles and techniques of play therapy as they apply to specific cases. Therapists for adults may seek consultation in order to understand how trauma at a specific age may have impacted the client’s development. I am also available for ongoing supervision of interns or licensed therapists who are interested in play […]
- [Teacher Consultation](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2014/teacherconsultation/551/): If you are having trouble with your students’ potty training/toileting or tantrums and other challenging behavior, OR if you are having trouble discussing behavioral issues with parents of your students, set up a one-on-one consultation with me. I will help you come up with proactive strategies for working with children and/or parents.
- [Conflict Resolution in the Preschool Years](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2014/teacherworkshops/conflict-resolution-in-the-preschool-years/): Peer to peer conflict in the preschool years is frequent and can begin to feel overwhelming and exhausting to teachers. This workshop provides practical ideas on how to help children learn to manage there own conflicts, as conflicts provide opportunities for children to learn how to get along with one another. Through the tools gained in this workshop, you can help children learn to listen to their peers and incorporate a variety of ideas and needs into their play.
- [Circle-Time Magic](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2014/teacherworkshops/circle-time-magic/): This workshop will teach you to promote social and emotional development through whole group activities. Circle time offers a wonderful opportunity to assist children with the development of strong social skills.  This workshop offers teachers an overall framework for thinking about circle time as well as specific actives to promote body awareness and impulse control while expanding children’s emotional vocabulary.
- [Therapy Referrals for Teachers](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2014/teachertherapy/536/): It can be difficult to know which students are in need of extra assistance. Some instances in which it may be helpful to refer students for play therapy are when: They are showing signs of stress or have unusually stressful circumstances They are having trouble making or keeping friends They are withdrawn or never talk in class They have difficulty recovering from a tantrum They are overly compliant I can discuss these issues and more with you to see if she believes that it would be appropriate to refer a particular student for therapy, and if she believes she is not […]
- [Slime (AKA Silly Putty, Flubber)](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2014/recipes/slime-aka-silly-putty-flubber/): Ingredients: 1 tbs borax powder in ½ cup water ½ cup Elmer’s glue mixed with A few drops of food coloring or paint Directions: In one container mix borax with water.  In separate container mix glue with water and stir well.  Add paint of food coloring to this container.  Add the Borax mixture to the glue mixture, stirring constantly.  As the glue begins to clump, lift it from the water and kneed in your hand until smooth. Children will find all kinds of silly and gross ways to use this.  Keep off upholstery and carpets.  Great outside or on tile or […]
- [Kool-aid Play Dough](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2014/recipes/kool-aid-play-dough/): This play dough is colorful and has a wonderful fragrance too. The kids just love it! Ingredients: ½ cup salt 2½ cups flour 2 packages Kool-Aid 3 tablespoons oil 2 cups boiling water Directions: Mix dry ingredients. Add oil. Add water and knead. Store in plastic bags in the refrigerator.
- [Girl Scout Peanut Butter Play Dough](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2014/recipes/girl-scout-peanut-butter-play-dough/): Ingredients: 1 cup peanut butter ½ cup honey 2 cups powdered sugar Directions: Mix all ingredients in a bowl, using your hands. Dough should feel soft and pliable. Form shapes and be creative!! When not using, MUST be stored in an airtight container. This recipe is great to make with children and lends itself to lots of variation by adding other powdered or sticky materials.
- [Shaving Cream Boats](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2014/recipes/shaving-cream-boats/): Ingredients: 1 tub of water, any size from dish pan on up 1 can shaving cream leaves and feathers (optional) Directions: Squirt shaving cream onto the water to for ‘boats.’  Blow gently to send boats back and forth between you and your child.  Add feathers or leaves for sails.  Be open to whatever creative variations your child comes up with.  Shaving cream is just soap, so clean up is easy.  A great bathtub activity.
- [Palm Sundaes](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2014/recipes/palm-sundaes/): Ingredients: 1 can whipped cream small candies, nuts or cherries candy sprinkles (for cake or cookie decorating) Directions: Squirt whipped cream onto palm of child’s hand.  Offer toppings.  When creation is complete have child eat right off his hand!  Have child make one for you too.  For more bonding eat off each other’s hands.  A sweet sticky mess.  Leave time to clean up with warm soaping water. Note: whipped cream is also great squirted directly into the mouth.  Less messy and almost as much fun.
- [Ages and Stages: Understanding the Unique Needs, Challenges and Opportunities of the Preschool Years](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2014/workshops/ages-and-stages/): Knowledge of the basics of child development can inform your orientation towards your young students. Discover tips for the successful handling of groups of children at each age, and learn how to best support their social and emotional learning.
- [Parent Consultation](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2014/parents/parent-consultation/): There is no shortage of advice available to parents. Books, magazines, teachers, in-laws and other parents all have something to say. Sifting through that advice and finding solutions that work for your family can be daunting. Parent consultation is an opportunity to look at problem behavior through the lens of your values, your skills and your child’s unique needs. When we take all of these factors into account, we can find solutions that are fairly easy to implement and bring big changes to family life. Issues for which families seek consultation include: Bed time battles Struggles around food Toileting issues Tantrums […]
- [Parenting Tots With an Eye Toward the Teen Years](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2014/parents/parenting-tots-with-an-eye-toward-the-teen-years/): Preschoolers and adolescents have a lot in common. At each of these stages, children are attempting to understand who they are and how they fit into the larger world. Often they define themselves clumsily as “not you.” This creates problems for parents, who often feel hurt and rejected by their formerly very loving children. How parents handle the challenges of the preschool years sets up a template for the relationship, a template which—for better or worse—will carry through the teen years. Learn how to use the preschool years to establish a parent-child relationship based on love, mutual respect, clear communication and […]
- [Raising Emotionally Healthy Children](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2014/parents/raising-emotionally-healthy-children/): As parents, we are pretty clear on the basics of raising physically healthy children (nutrition, exercise, sleep, hygiene). But we receive relatively little information about supporting children’s emotional health. This is unfortunate because emotional health is key to living a stable, happy and successful life. In the absence of guidance, we as parents tend to flip between two positions: we either discount our children’s emotions, or we give in to them. This workshop will help you discover the middle ground, allowing you to assist your children in understanding and communicating their emotional needs.
- [Laila and the Three Bears: When kids face bullying](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2011/articles/laila-and-the-three-bears-when-kids-face-bullying/): Once upon a time… I was listening to my daughter, then four years old, recount the story of Goldilocks and the Three Bears. “Someone’s been eating my porridge, and they ate it all up.” “Oh, Baby Bear, you must be very sad. I will make you some more.” And she gave Baby Bear a hug. This was not the way I remembered the story; I perked up out of my half-listening state. “Then they went into the living room,” she continued. “Someone’s been sitting in my chair, and they broke it all to pieces!” “Oh, Baby Bear, you must be very […]
- [Bang, Bang, You're Dead: The role of violent games in children’s play](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2010/articles/bang-bang-youre-dead-the-role-of-violent-games-in-childrens-play/): This is a response to a question from a mother about violent themes in her young son’s play. She was particularly concerned about pretend gun play. Dear Mama, I am so glad you asked. Yes, this play has a very important function. Your child is learning to manage, contain and control his aggressive impulses. Everyone has aggressive impulses. We all get angry, jealous or afraid. We all have the desire, conscious or unconscious, to lash out and hurt someone. Play gives children the opportunity to explore and work through these feelings without actually hurting anyone. Children who act out these feeling […]
- [Children and Tantrums: Why they do it & how to get through it](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2009/articles/children-and-tantrums-why-they-do-it-how-to-get-through-it/): All children tantrum. Some children are better at it than others. Some are very dramatic, throwing every ounce of energy they have into the tantrum. Some are excellent at finding the most inconvenient time or most embarrassing place to let lose. Many children are excellent at drawing their parents into the drama, making them feel responsible for the upset and uncertain about how to respond. All parents respond to tantrumming. Some responses are more useful than others. Some responses tend to reinforce the tantrums, keeping them going longer than necessary and setting the stage for the next one. Other responses are […]
- [What About My Special Needs:](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2009/parents/what-about-my-special-needs/): A play therapy group for siblings of disabled children Sibling relationships are always complex. When one of the siblings is disabled, the many layers of emotion can be difficult for the non-disabled sibling to negotiate. Feelings of love and family loyalty compete with feelings of frustration, anger and embarrassment. “Of course I love my brother/sister, but why does he/she have to…” This group is designed to give children a place to explore and express these feelings with others who are going through the same or similar experiences.
- [Individual Play Therapy](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2009/parentchildtherapy/individual-play-therapy/): I meet with the child in my office usually once a week. I have a wide range of toys, games and activities available to assist in understanding and communicating with the child. Individual play therapy creates a safe place for the child to heal and grow. I meet regularly with parents during this process to monitor progress and keep communication open.
- [Family Play Therapy](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2009/parentchildtherapy/family-play-therapy/): Family dynamics may be holding unwanted patterns of behavior in place. Family therapy can help family members to understand these patterns, and to open up the lines of communication. Through this process, family members can learn to take on more open and authentic roles. Family therapy is often used to help family members adjust following a major event such as a death or other loss or to help the family cope with the impact of addiction.
- [Filial Therapy](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2009/parentchildtherapy/filial-therapy/): In filial therapy the therapist teaches the parent the skills used in non-directive play therapy. Filial therapy is used to strengthen the relationship between parent and child, and help the parent better understand the child’s world. The skills taught in filial therapy can then be used to address everyday conflicts between parent and child.
- [Group Therapy](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2009/parentchildtherapy/group-therapy/): Group therapy can be an excellent way to help children develop social skills or focus on other specific areas. It is usually time-limited and less expensive than individual or family therapy. Building Blocks Social Skills Play Group: Preschool 3–5-yr olds The preschool years are a critical time for learning to get along with peers and become part of a group. Through group play children learn to better understand the larger world and their place in it. Children who have difficulty getting along with their peers are missing opportunities for learning on many levels. This play group is designed to assist children […]
- [Individual Therapy for Adolescents and Adults](https://familyplaytherapy.com/2009/parentchildtherapy/individual-therapy-for-adolescents-and-adults/): I use a relational approach of deep listening and reflection to assist with developing a better understanding of self. Sand tray and art materials are available to help patients of all ages to get in touch with thoughts and feelings at a pre-verbal level. As these are brought to the surface we can work together to verbalize and better understand their impact on current relationships and patterns of behavior. This kind of work can be especially useful for resolving grief and early trauma.

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- [For Schools](https://familyplaytherapy.com/services/for-schools/): Building Blocks at Schools Be a local leader in children’s social development! Provide a safe, comfortable play space for small groups of 4-6 children and make a lasting impact. Bring Building Blocks Social Skills Development Program to Your School Today! Set Up A Consultation Time When Building Blocks piloted their program at our preschool, I […] was noticing a lot of the conflict in my group of four year olds stemmed from a lack of social skills. Three of my students participated in the program and after the first visit they often asked when it was time to go back. […]I […]
- [Blog](https://familyplaytherapy.com/blog/): Blog Posts for Play Therapy Professionals Blog Posts for Parents
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- [Current Groups](https://familyplaytherapy.com/current-groups/): Group Information Click on any of the posts below to learn more about current groups in-session!
- [Offerings](https://familyplaytherapy.com/offerings/): Workshops, Therapy, Consultation Learn about each of Family Play Therapy’s Offerings. Workshops Now offering children’s play therapy groups, educational workshops for parents, and training workshops for play therapy professionals. read more Therapy Offering play therapy to children, individual therapy, and family therapy. read more Consultation Now providing consultations to family members seeking help for their children and to other play therapy professionals or  seeking support on specific cases. read more
- [Therapy](https://familyplaytherapy.com/services/therapy/): Why Play Therapy? Developmentally, children don’t yet have the capacity to use the insight-based verbal therapy typically used by adults. The magic of play therapy is that it engages directly with the child as she/he is in the moment, bypassing the need for language-based communication while still allowing the therapist to assess and respond to the underlying needs of each child. Also, because the therapy is fun for the child, there is less resistance and often more rapid change than with talk therapy. Intake and Assessment In the first few sessions of a new therapeutic relationship, I gather as much information […]
- [Consultation](https://familyplaytherapy.com/services/consultation/): Play therapy-focused Group Consultation Receive consultation and supervision from a highly experienced play therapist Play therapy supervision and consultation is an excellent way to deepen your knowledge, hone your skills, and build confidence in working with children and families. Whether you are working toward your play therapy credential (RPT or SB-RPT) or just need occasional support, this group is an excellent resource. Email Katrinca(@familyplaytherapy.com) for more information. One-on-One Consultation Drawing on years of experience working with and observing children, I offer consultation for parents, teachers and therapist. Consultations are briefer than therapy and isually more issue-specific. Issues addressed in consultation may range […]
- [Workshops](https://familyplaytherapy.com/services/workshops/): Workshops and Trainings Because of her extensive background in child development, Katrinca’s workshops and trainings are insightful, practical, and lots of fun! Katrinca is a dynamic presenter with an interactive approach. Participants walk away with a whole new set of tools that they can use to invigorate and enrich their future interactions with children. Come play! People of all backgrounds are welcome. If you don’t see the training topic you are looking for, contact Katrinca and she will develop a custom workshop to meet the needs of your particular group. [Register Now!] Current Workshops Inquire How to Bring this To Your […]
- [Articles](https://familyplaytherapy.com/articles/): All Articles Written By Katrinca
- [For Therapists](https://familyplaytherapy.com/services/therapists/): Therapy “Playing reduces stress, improves life, and increases creativity. Who doesn’t want that?” -Stevanne Auerbach, “Dr. Toy” Consultation Workshops Katrinca is a frequent provider of workshops for therapist through both  The California Association for Play Therapy and  Fred Finch Youth Center in Oakland. Workshop participates can earn both CEUs and credit toward certification in play therapy through  The Association for Play Therapy (APT). Below are workshop that are currently scheduled or have been recently offered. Contact Katrinca for information about setting up a training for your group. 
- [For Teachers](https://familyplaytherapy.com/services/teachers/): Therapy, Workshops, and Consultation Therapy “The human need to play is a powerful one. When we ignore it, we feel there is something missing in our lives.” -Leo Buscaglia, Author & Educator Workshops Consultation
- [For Parents & Children](https://familyplaytherapy.com/services/parents-children/): Therapy, Workshops, and Services Therapy Workshops Services
- [Current Workshops](https://familyplaytherapy.com/current-workshops/): Workshops Forming or Currently in Session:
- [About](https://familyplaytherapy.com/about/): About Kathleen “Katrinca” Ford, LMFT I have over 30 years of experience working with children in a variety of settings. I have amassed a strong theoretical and practical knowledge of childhood and the many issues children and families face as they grow. And yet, each time I meet a child I am starting anew. Who is this unique and wonderful person? What special gifts does she bring to the world? What challenges does she face? How can we work together—child, family and therapist—to create the best outcome for the child and family?    Education MS in Counseling Psychology Cal State University, […]
- [Resources](https://familyplaytherapy.com/resources/): Parenting Podcasts The Power of No: Why We Need to Set Boundaries with Young Children, Part 1 Old Firehouse School Chat Presents: Setting boundaries for children isn’t just about safety; it’s crucial for their emotional growth and future interactions. In this episode, Alexandra Dutton welcomes back Katrinca Ford, MFT, to delve into why establishing appropriate limits for children is so vital. Saying “no” to your child can be tough, but the powerful messages it conveys about safety, coping with disappointment, and understanding boundaries are invaluable. This discussion between early childhood experts was so insightful, we’ve split it into two must-listen episodes! […]
- [Services](https://familyplaytherapy.com/services/): About Family Play Therapy Experience and Focus Katrinca offers Therapy, Consultation and Training based on a strong background in Child Development: educated in human development and counseling psychology with emphasis on children and adolescents, coupled with 30+ years of observing and interacting with children and families in a variety of settings including 14 years of reaching pre-school. For over a decade now in private practice she has been helping parents understand the particular needs of individual children and families in the context of wider developmental issues and offering her insights in workshops and trainings for teachers and health care professionals. Her […]
- [Contact](https://familyplaytherapy.com/contact/): I am currently offering services via telehealth and in person. Please use the contact form or email me if you have any questions. Kathleen “Katrinca” Ford, MS, Marriage and Family Therapist

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