Useful Resources
The Alphabet Can Wait: Essential Learning in the Preschool Years
Fifty years ago, when I attended, children were taught the alphabet in Kindergarten. It was there we learned the name and shape of each letter, to associate sounds with letters, to recognize and write our names. Assuming a positive experience with books and barring any learning disability, most of us moved smoothly into reading in […]
Helping Children Manage Joint Custody
Do you remember the famous Winston Churchill quote “Democracy is the worst form of government, except for all the others that have been tried.” The same can be said for joint custody.
Joint custody is the worst possible choice for children with divorced or separated parents, except when you consider the other choices.
Stay in an unhappy, […]
Laila and the Three Bears: When kids face bullying
Once upon a time…
I was listening to my daughter, then four years old, recount the story of Goldilocks and the Three Bears.
“Someone’s been eating my porridge, and they ate it all up.” “Oh, Baby Bear, you must be very sad. I will make you some more.” And she gave Baby Bear a hug.
This was not […]
Bang, Bang, You’re Dead: The role of violent games in children’s play
This is a response to a question from a mother about violent themes in her young son’s play. She was particularly concerned about pretend gun play.
Dear Mama,
I am so glad you asked. Yes, this play has a very important function. Your child is learning to manage, contain and control his aggressive impulses. Everyone has aggressive […]
Children and Tantrums: Why they do it & how to get through it
All children tantrum. Some children are better at it than others. Some are very dramatic, throwing every ounce of energy they have into the tantrum. Some are excellent at finding the most inconvenient time or most embarrassing place to let lose. Many children are excellent at drawing their parents into the drama, making them feel […]
Moon Flour
This recipe produces something very similar to commercially available Moon Sand, but is softer, less expensive and easier to clean up.
Ingredients:
- 2 cups flour
- ¼ cup mineral oil
Directions:
Stir the mineral oil into the flour until it is evenly distributed and fully absorbed. The resulting product should hold together loosely when compacted like wet sand. Add additional mineral oil if needed to achieve desired result. Place in a shallow tray.
Children can use hands, measuring spoons, plastic or paper cups and/or silicon molds to create shape and “sand” castles.
Slime (AKA Silly Putty, Flubber)
Ingredients:
- 1 tbs borax powder in
- ½ cup water
- ½ cup Elmer’s glue mixed with
- A few drops of food coloring or paint
Directions:
In one container mix borax with water. In separate container mix glue with water and stir well. Add paint of food coloring to this container. Add the Borax mixture to the glue mixture, stirring constantly. As the glue begins to clump, lift it from the water and kneed in your hand until smooth.
Children will find all kinds of silly and gross ways to use this. Keep off upholstery and carpets. Great outside or on tile or linoleum. Store in ziplock baggie.
Note: Do not use this with children who need to put things in their mouths.
Kool-aid Play Dough
This play dough is colorful and has a wonderful fragrance too. The kids just love it!
Ingredients:
- ½ cup salt
- 2½ cups flour
- 2 packages Kool-Aid
- 3 tablespoons oil
- 2 cups boiling water
Directions:
Mix dry ingredients. Add oil. Add water and knead.
Store in plastic bags in the refrigerator.
Girl Scout Peanut Butter Play Dough
Ingredients:
- 1 cup peanut butter
- ½ cup honey
- 2 cups powdered sugar
Directions:
Mix all ingredients in a bowl, using your hands. Dough should feel soft and pliable. Form shapes and be creative!!
When not using, MUST be stored in an airtight container.
This recipe is great to make with children and lends itself to lots of variation by adding other powdered or sticky materials.
Shaving Cream Boats
Ingredients:
- 1 tub of water, any size from dish pan on up
- 1 can shaving cream
- leaves and feathers (optional)
Directions:
Squirt shaving cream onto the water to for ‘boats.’ Blow gently to send boats back and forth between you and your child. Add feathers or leaves for sails. Be open to whatever creative variations your child comes up with. Shaving cream is just soap, so clean up is easy. A great bathtub activity.
Palm Sundaes
Ingredients:
- 1 can whipped cream
- small candies, nuts or cherries
- candy sprinkles (for cake or cookie decorating)
Directions:
Squirt whipped cream onto palm of child’s hand. Offer toppings. When creation is complete have child eat right off his hand! Have child make one for you too. For more bonding eat off each other’s hands. A sweet sticky mess. Leave time to clean up with warm soaping water.
Note: whipped cream is also great squirted directly into the mouth. Less messy and almost as much fun.
Here are some online and Bay Area Resources that may be useful, depending on your particular family’s needs.